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rbj66

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Should the man reach out first?
Posted : 13 May, 2025 02:17 AM

Is it me or have women gotten weird? 🤔😄. Coming from Mars of course. A woman views a man, should he say hi? I try to wait until they reach out first but i can be socially contagious and people stereotype me differently anyways. I had one woman send a wink who was not too far away, and i said we should have a coffee sometime. She shot back she wanted to take it slow 🤔. Okay. So that was too fast 🙄? Just talk here then. Don't send a wink if you don't want dialogue, right? I don't think it was me that time

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Should the man reach out first?
Posted : 19 May, 2025 07:03 PM

I should add, I recognize you were trying to get past the online part and get to meeting. I agree, meeting right away is best for everyone, people are so different in person compared to their pictures sometimes. Obviously there may be no chemistry in person when they are great on paper. Why spend weeks, maybe months conversing if you aren't a match (unless this is what you want to do). I guess all we can do is give them the benefit of the doubt until it's obvious there isn't a match. Don't give up on her just yet!

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rbj66

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Should the man reach out first?
Posted : 25 May, 2025 05:21 AM

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WalkNTalk

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Posted : 28 Jun, 2025 10:18 AM

These days, women should be as assertive as Matthew 25:1, Isaiah 4:1, and Ruth 3:8.

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Posted : 21 Jul, 2025 07:13 PM

Men usually like to reach out first online to someone they are interested in. Many Men on this site reach out first.

Most Women like intelligent conversations.



Some Men who do not know how to approach a Woman online or he's not interested in Dating or LTR just talking among themselves on Free forums.

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WalkNTalk

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Posted : 21 Jul, 2025 09:01 PM

Roll the dice

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Moonlight7

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Posted : 22 Jul, 2025 07:43 AM

I do not use dice.





Most men playing on Forums cannot get a Decent Woman because they don't know what it takes to acquire one on a Christians Dating site or any Dating site.



Those Few men would be lost without a Free Forum!

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Posted : 23 Jul, 2025 06:46 AM

From moonrocks: " Most Women like intelligent conversations."



From Handyman: Most women aren't capable of having intelligent conversations with men. Women mainly have emotional conversations which are devoid of the "intelligent" part.

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WalkNTalk

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Posted : 23 Jul, 2025 07:21 AM

No man knows what it takes to get a woman on a Christian site. But there are a few clues. One, women who already have children and are not married. If a man embraces that, then that is available. Two, overseas women. If a man is willing to finance the flights, some women are willing to travel. If a man is willing to fly to see them, then the women are open to meeting them. If a man is willing to go up to bat tor them and sign affidavits of support and do all the paperwork and pay for flights and the visas, many women welcome the effort so they too can get to the Promised Land to a land flowing with milk and honey, and after they get here, they need not stay married, they need not stay loyal. They got what they wanted. They now can divorce. That is how it works. "A wife of noble character, WHO CAN FIND?" (Proverbs 31:10) "If this is the situation between a man and his wife, it is better not to marry." (Matthew 19:10) Whether paid member or non-paying member, it is all the same. If a man really wants to get a woman, he has to go to a naughty site for non-committed relationship as the Christian sties, a man just wastes his words. It is all over effort or reduced standards.

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WalkNTalk

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Posted : 23 Jul, 2025 07:32 AM

One can go up to bat for a wrong woman. But "the right woman" does not exist, so one is not going to find "the right woman". That will be very rare that a man find "the right woman" that the Bible does not speak against him having. Very hard to find a Proverbs 31:12 woman.

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Posted : 23 Jul, 2025 08:00 AM

MOST MEN CANNOT GET A DECENT WOMAN (PERIOD)

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