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Cuzzie1

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How to spot a potential husband.
Posted : 30 Oct, 2025 08:24 PM

My thoughts are pretty simple. You will know them by their fruits. A good man should exude the fruits of the spirit. love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Lead with humility, love sacrificialy, trustworthy and of good character.

To be honest when I look at that list I know I got work to do. Prolly one reason I'm still single😀

Is there anything I missed?

Ladies only please. I already know and have heard from a guy's perspective.

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Moonlight7

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Posted : 31 Oct, 2025 05:03 AM

Many Christian men lack some of the fruit of the Spirit but earnestly working to please God. A True Christian man seeking a relationship with a Christian Woman knows how to respect Women online and off. I have no problem spotting a True Christian man, speaking from my experience I am very vigulent in that area. Most basic free sites are not the best for a match although I have dated from this one, not seeking a husband I have been married and it was good while it lasted. So many Christian marriages even fail. The Best thing to do is have Respect for each other, No person is perfect Only Jesus.

Many online are not lonely and some date and have LTR. It is just a place to communicate with civil people when you can find them. :)

Paid apps are the Best for meeting those Christians, who truely follow Jesus teachings. IMO

Most Women leave posting because no relationships are formed from these CDFF Forum.

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Handyman62

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Posted : 31 Oct, 2025 10:06 AM

What does Cuzzie1 think she has that would attract that perfect man she's looking for?

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rbj66

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Posted : 2 Nov, 2025 06:10 AM

So much for "ladies only please" 🙄

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Handyman62

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Posted : 2 Nov, 2025 09:01 AM

So then why is rbj66?

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freetobe

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Posted : 2 Nov, 2025 07:24 PM

Cuzzie, Yep!! You will know them by their fruits, I agree. I would add "communication" also. People need good communication to make a great relationship. Good luck keeping hm out of "Ask Women". He's bitter and lonely and can't help himself. You just have to bypass the hate and enjoy the other respondents.

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Handyman62

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Posted : 2 Nov, 2025 08:04 PM

And we also know you all by your fruits. Your multiple sexual partners, illegitimate children and divorces that aren't biblical are the most prevalent of fruit on display by most women.

But then women expect Men to be perfect in order to qualify for them when all they have to offer is a feminist mindset and a ran through body to say the least.

The pickens have become mighty slim for men these days.

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Handyman62

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Posted : 2 Nov, 2025 08:45 PM

Modern women like to get out there when they're young and party it up but when the looks begin to fade or they dumped their baby daddy they all of a sudden must find that perfect man and he must tic all these boxes. It's the same for ran through christian women. He must tick all these Christian boxes while she tics almost none.

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Jayzeee

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Posted : 3 Nov, 2025 02:21 AM

When you’re not dating out of desperation you will take the time needed to get to know the person. That is one way to see if there is any potential in the relationship…:-)

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Handyman62

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Posted : 3 Nov, 2025 03:40 AM

Jayzeee I don't know about the desperation part but you're right about taking the time to get to know someone. Most women will reject men for nonsensical things without ever taking any time to get to know them. And yes I do blame women for pretty much all current relationship woes. Men started this by giving power to women that God didn't equip them to handle and women have turned that power on men and themselves. Women need to relinquish that power by being the women that the Bible tells them to be by becoming submissive again.

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Cuzzie1

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Posted : 3 Nov, 2025 05:44 PM

Thankyou for your thoughts Moonlight, free2be and Jayzee.

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