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Posted : 20 Oct, 2025 02:00 PM

Every letter I've gotten either has been hateful or nice then if I give out my email or phone number right away it's hateful and really harassing or someone sends me porn calls me fake says I'm stupid asks to meet for sex or do sex chat. It's heartbreaking. Jesus said husbands love your wives a

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Posted : 9 Nov, 2025 11:45 AM

I find it extremely odd that you would post Matthew 7:6 since it's mainly only men who read scripture that's shared and take it to heart. Whereas when scriptures are shared with women they largely ignored it.

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Posted : 9 Nov, 2025 12:38 PM

@Freetobe bound.... after seeing way in which you commilunicated so atrociously against me with false accusations and assumptions, I decided to look at your history. Wow! All I can see from you is evil against men and pleasantries and flatteries towards women, posting links to ear scratching teachings. Why do you bite and snap at men, consistently? Do you hate men? Are you a Jezzie Lezzie? Your behavior here is observablely nice age peasant towards women and nasty and hateful towards men. Why? And also why do you strive against the words of God? I am a pattern recognitionist and instead of assuming the intent of your heart, I'll ask you directly. Unlike the war in which you have so heinous dealt with me, without a cause

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Posted : 9 Nov, 2025 12:40 PM

The irony of you commenting on a thread that is speaking of hateful messages, cannot be overlooked.

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Posted : 13 Nov, 2025 12:18 PM

Cuzzie, no worries here. Thanks so much for the note. You as well. God bless,

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Posted : 13 Nov, 2025 08:36 PM

hahaha

She skipped that one.

She choose

She pretend.

She ignore it. hahaha FUNNY!

No answer from her on it.

She pretend you don't exist.

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Posted : 13 Nov, 2025 08:37 PM

HUMOR

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Handyman62

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Posted : 14 Nov, 2025 10:09 AM

Freetobe is like most women when confronted with questions or responses they don't like. They either clam up or argue in circles. Typical reasons for this are: You already have them pegged or they don't want to answer because they don't want to risk being exposed by trying to explain the reason for their behavior.

Because God gave us all the feeling of guilt women will bend over backwards to avoid that feeling by either fighting or flighting when we get anywhere near reminding them of what they are knowingly doing wrong.

I've asked many questions of the women on here and literally haven't gotten one hard question answered. I've had a lot of diversionary tactics thrown at me like gas lighting and circular arguments and in many cases no response at all. There are certain men that will do the same thing so it is not an exclusive club.

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Posted : 14 Nov, 2025 10:14 AM

The reality is nobody likes to be told they're wrong but it's far easier to get through to men (especially old school men) than it is for women. Women just absolutely do not want to be told anything if it means they are wrong. I don't know every reason for this but one is because women are lied to by pretty much everyone. Government lies to women, feminism lies to women, Churches lie to women, Men lie to women, women lie to each other and women lie to themselves and they all have different reasons for doing it. Since women are lied to by so many when it comes to hearing the truth they just don't want to hear it. They will claim it's not the truth but deep down they know it's true but would rather keep hearing lies that stroke their ego.

But that has to stop and I decided to draw the line and take a scorched earth approach. So why did I choose that approach? Some think it's out of anger but that's not the reason. The real reason is the nice approach doesn't work at all with women and the only one that has a chance is to just tell it like it is no ifs ands or buts. So don't be fooled when they say they reject what you said because you weren't nice enough because they already decided they weren't going to listen anyway.

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Posted : 14 Nov, 2025 10:20 AM

Unfortunately most women can't be reached unless they are forced to and that's likely not going to happen as it would require that men unite together and remove all the perks we give to women. Women have become so extremely selfish and self centered they have forgotten their lives have been made so safe & comfy because of the hard work that men do. It would take removing that comfort and safety to remind them where God has placed them in the hierarchy.

Women have come to believe that since they can work and make money that it has made them equal or superior to men. They watch marvel movies that depict a 110lb woman kicking the butts of men more than twice her size and believe that women in real life can do the same. Or they think their air conditioned office job compares to the jobs men do like working in 100 plus degree weather building roads, sidewalks and buildings. They expect equality from men but don't give the same in return.

The biggest problem I see now are the men that are enablers of women's bad behaviors. Although it may look like I only confront women. I'm actually an equal opportunity confronter so whether you be a feminist female or a simpy male I will call you out. I know that doesn't sit well with many people. Being nice to simps might work for them but it definitely doesn't work for women otherwise simps wouldn't always finish last.

I'm sure for most I come off as a jerk but those who truly know me know that's not the case. I've never been a simp, at least not a full blown one anyway. I do believe in kindness but found when it comes to all women too much of it garners nothing but disrespect from them. Women are designed to be hemmed in by boundaries and as long as she respects her husband she will respect those boundaries. Once respect is lost so are the boundaries which is something I learned in my own marriage. I don't know if there was anything I could have done to save it. I did however learn not to give up certain powers because once those powers are abused you can never get them back.  

 there're insurmountable problems for men in these modern times because men are expected by women to be something that's impossible to achieve. They want us to be masculine but only when it suits them and we are supposed to always know when that is. Except women themselves don't always know when that is. And women are so fickle about everything that all they need to change their mind is to see something on social media and poof everything's different.

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Posted : 14 Nov, 2025 11:00 AM

I've said this in another thread but will repeat it again. I don't believe women are capable of unconditional love. I do believe men are for the most part capable of unconditional love because there are examples of it everywhere. It takes very little for a man to love a woman and a lot to destroy that love if it's ever completely destroyed.

On the other hand for women it takes a lot for her to love and it can easily be lost . And again there are examples of this everywhere. When a woman leaves a relationship she literally lets everyone know how much of a jerk he was. Except if you ask him he would tell a different tale and it would sound more like how hard he tried to make things work but it was never enough for her.

For a man to fall in love it might entail how she looks, her smile, how she talks, walks and smells. For women those attributes also come into play but it's also what he brings to her like money, power, masculinity, safety and the potential for the finer things in life like a nice house, a nice car and the ability to travel.

For women if any of those things are lost then she will usually leave and try to take as much of what's left with her and seek out another man. It doesn't matter whether she's Christian or has children, all that matters is her perceived happiness. On the other hand for men especially when children are involved they will do their best to stick it out and will only leave when she has made it impossible for him to stay.

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